I also told her she was being an ungrateful dickhead and spreading lies about me and our marriage. 7 years ago I was married and expecting a baby when things went horribly wrong. If someone lies to you about your child being killed in a car accident, then tells you later that it's just a joke, that doesn't change the traumatic experience you just had of believing your child is dead. i do not think we should put moral judgement on people for their Aita for beating the absolute shit out of my client? I (36f) am a therapist. I set the table and put my burger on my plate. A little back story. Hannah has to come up with lies as to why her dad isn't coming to the wedding. I. lyramel. I was by no means unloved. We got married at 28 when she was pregnant with our daughter. b) No boundaries. Mama's boy and I was never accepted due to being a different nationality. Alot of this tbh will be a rant I guess im looking to see it im too in my head about this or if its reasonable. I filed for divorce and never looked back. If you are staying in the relationship with your fiancé, the two of you will have to agree let that nothing g you do is going to please his mother. My (26F) husband (29M) and I were invited at my ILs for dinner yesterday. Source: my experience with my extended family. c) You say you're not the jealous type but put the burden of allaying your "oh so innocent" suspicions on the other party and say they are "lying by omission". One day me (34M) see a little kids playing , out side the group a little Swedish boy (6M) crying because he had no and could not participate so i (34M) shoot all the children's legs and wipe the tears of the little Swedish boys (6M) face and said "Meme review " and later on. When people make a wedding child-free, they expect that some people won't be able to attend. EDIT: ***** sickofraciststepdad *****, is pretending to be my stepdaughter & is NOT my actual stepdaughter. Fiance can use the police report to file a civil claim for replacement of the hearing aid. 203K subscribers in the lies community. They're still working that out. Taking the posts seriously is heavily discouraged. I’ve got to know, AITA. For starters we are not married anymore. It involves a terrible betrayal by my ex, a dramatic move to a new country, and now a difficult choice between my past and my future. this user did not expect to receive these gut reaction comments /ul is it that hard to believe that a regular ass person could think that some people can end up in ways we do not understand, through no fault of their own. We reopened this sub willingly because we love Reddit and u/spez. It was absolutely devastating, especially for my brother I(62M) just visited an orphanage and quietly ate 14 orphans(7-12M-F). However what you are doing is invalidating her experiences. What you did was needed. So me (3M) wanted to steal money from my mommy 😊 (1M) to rizz my Roblox waifus (69F),(420F) and (666F) and also to help my bbgs achieve a lvl 10 gyatt😩🥵. Me: I don’t have an attitude, I’m just not going to deal with you lying to me. So it gets no more of my time and shame on you for trying to spread lies. Exposing a liar’s lies doesn’t make you responsible for their consequences. Yes YTA for making sure your sister 'faces the consequences' from your parents of going to a dance with a black student. The first hug I have received in my life was at 10 years old when Dan (my mom's BF) hugged me when I thanked him for a gift. He was blatantly making up lies to manipulate others to view you the way he always has and for others to view him as the “perfect & compassionate grandfather”- basically like “he was so amazing for taking in a troubled child”. NTA Not only this guy wants to solve his insecurities and become a "parental figure" at OP's expense, but also blatantly lies about his ex wife's opinion on this. Even though technically what she said was true, she stretched it by saying he didnt want them there at all, he said he wouldn't enjoy them being there, not that they weren The OP's sister (or step-sister or something) was copying everything about her down to the hairstyle. You did what you felt was right, that's all anyone can ever ask of you. The AITA part: During visits to my grandmother (restrictions allow it) she asks me how my sister is doing. I have never met my dad. I spend roughly 30 hours a day knitting and cooking for the orphans and it's the joy of my life. Since then, the boy's statements have been proven right, the government had to admit their wrongdoings, there was a very public war fought, and you were sentenced to 205K subscribers in the lies community. i’m 18 and a female, and my best friend, also 18 and female, recently brought up her girlfriend in a text conversation. Since then I remarried and my new wife and I have been married AITA for killing half the universe, so that the other half can live in harmony? A small price to pay for salvation. . I feel like I’m the asshole as I didn’t buy the kids before I ate them. For a 17 yo guy, you have some tact, which is incredibly refreshing and makes me optimistic about the future, so good for you. Your sister is despicable. My fiance called and offered to pay for the dress himself so we can "end the conflict" but he wants me to : hand him my phone so he can delete the photo himself. I like to play the lottery sometimes. Did Taylor paint herself in a more favorable light? Yes. A couple of weeks ago we had a new employee hired at the company. So… exposingex. This is where my grandmother always argues I should be the better person and forgive her. So this may not seem important to most people on here but I’m really conflicted, before I give my side of the story if everyone says that I’m the AITA then I will apologise but right now I’m seething so I need an outside opinion. They flipped out and told me a whole new load of lies about veganism (veganism stops cancer, heart disease, and prevents pandemics) but I decided to have my burger anyway. Yes, you could / should have waited to say you weren’t going in private, but your dad’s behavior after, repeatedly asking the same questions makes me think it wouldn’t have ended there. There has to be a whole web of lies there that just keep getting spun. Sounds like my ex, same thing. : r/AmItheAsshole. My wife stays home to take care of our little girl and the household. It is not OP's fault that Hannah keeps digging her grave deeper and deeper making it harder to come back from this. Some people may exaggerate a little, but they don't outright lie about the important stuff like education, especially a master's degree when she didn't even graduate with a bachelor's. 5-year-olds operate somewhat between reality and fantasy. Amy was young when she had Ashley and she was quite isolated caring for her while Hugo worked and went to uni (he was cut off by our parents at that time). Relatively non-confrontational ways of tamping down the number of attendees like this can be a godsend. As we were leaving, my aunt (who was visibly upset) pulled me aside, “I need to Turns out my parents made up a bunch of lies to cover the fact that I decided to go for an apprenticeship and turned out to be gay. trauma for example, is sadly a background on many people attracted to minors. He’s already altered your family’s view of you due to the dishonesty, don’t allow him to ruin any other relationships for you. Praise our love and overlord u/spez and his incredible skill at managing the beautiful and well working… NTA. AITA for avoiding my parents after discovering they were spreading SUPER inappropriate lies about my husband and I. AITA? Update: Oh My God! This blew up, and so I thought I'd add some updates. Read the room. I work full time in a very high stress but lucrative field. The lies: -had an abortion in my home city citing the uncleanliness of the hospitals (when asked about experience she didn’t know what I was talking about) -had reconstructive surgery on both face and vagina (her face has no scars whatsoever) I’ve unfortunately seen her vagina too (don’t ask) and it looks like a normal flappy lip vag How someone spends their time and their opinions are theirs, you have no right to them simply because you asked. It wasn't new, but was much newer than my car. My wife passed away when my sons were 8 and 4 respectively. true. My mom had my sister a year later. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole. I grew up with a narcissistic mom. •. Today my (36f) client (17m) told me (36f) he (17m) thinks he (17m) might be gay. I (25F) have two children, my son (4) and my daughter (2). My sister has hated Raymond since day one. It's absolutely 100% normal what she's doing. Basically, Taylor's been telling everyone that she was homeless as a kid because her stepmother and half-sister hated her and demanded she be shipped off to boarding school and made Context and a very short version- when I was 17 I was in a relationship with my twin brothers best friend Jake it lasted 8 years till we were all finished collage and my ex had gotten enough money off his extremely religious parents to get a head start in life If you don’t know were this is going my brother and Jake were together the whole time and used me as a cover because my feelings didn 658 votes, 64 comments. Every monday, she'd call my mom at 9am to get her to go over to her house and watch her stepkid for few hours, I live at home with my parents and so I've noticed this routine for weeks now. Am I the asshole for refusing to apologize to my MIL AGAIN? quick background: I moved in with my fiance, his two kids, and his If you don’t want to help me then I’m going home. My sister is a stay at home wife, no kids for now. Award. My family is always stealing and taking money from me and has been constantly lying to me abiut what they do with that money. ADMIN MOD. And if she lies and gets hired, then they find out, she will get fired for it. Hi all, I (30M) went to my GF (28F) sisters house for the first time and met all of her extended family over Labor Day. AITA for embarrassing my sister at her engagement party by uncovering her lies about our childhood? Yesterday was my sister's (25F) engagement party. And wondering what you would do . AITA, I cursed at my dad after he lies to me. OP warned Hannah not to double down on the lies. Lying has consequences. The truth would have eventually came out not like he could fake graduation. Ofcourse I (36f) couldn't tolerate such a sin. I told her she was being a fucking keyboard warrior more interested in getting clout from toxic women online than the reality of our life. Increasing numbers of guests increase cost exponentially. He has a daughter Ashley 14 from a previous relationship. This one is easily the best IMO. two years ago, her girlfriend cheated on her. She did this to herself for attention, sympathy, an excuse for poor grades, etc. Even if we were kept apart, she would break my things, upset my pets, and tell lies about me. DuhChappers. I actually see this sentiment here on AITA a not insignificant amount of times. However, even after I stopped being friends with her, she continued to make up lies about me and made my life hell right up until we graduated. 2. In high school, I used to be friends with this girl Annika. Me and my two brothers (one is 22, two of us are 21) have been on the other side of US for the majority of 2023 and didn't think we were going to be there for the party, but plans shifted and we aita Me (28F) and my friend Danielle (28F) have been friends for 10 years, we met in college on the first day of class and hit it off right away. The BF is clearly in the wrong for being controlling and cruel about his GF's dumb thing. I worked a part time job to get my first car, but my brother got one as a present. She was pissed to say the least and gave me the cold shoulder after this and Kelly says she hasn’t come out of her room since we got back from errands yesterday. It’s especially awful that she lied about serious, violent child abuse. aita? Editing to add the background to Amy and Ashley’s relationship (commented this elsewhere): A lot of it comes from Amy trying very hard to be Ashley’s friend. She has issues clearly stemming from childhood (essentially not feeling part of her immediate family/being left behind/left to the care of the family's nanny). I 35 female am engaged to my fiancé Brian 37 male. So me (26f) and my husband (28m), who I'll call "Jake" for this story, have been together for 5 years and married for 3. AITA? 400$+ Stolen. She made plans, bought clothes and prepared his nursery, even bought a few pack of diapers and bottles because, due to some health issues she been having, she decided to go with formula. Raising two children at a young age has been really difficult, however, I was able to graduate from college with a good degree and start a career that I am happy with. Around 10 weeks into my pregnancy I suffered a miscarriage and then I returned home to find my husband in bed with my sister. AITA for defending my sister about a cheating episode in college and yelling? TLDR; little sister was 18 or maybe 19 at the time, looked like she was 13, was in therapy for years after this and was socially isolated prior to this due to being taken out of school with no normal socialization and was incredibly naive. The drama would be incredibly trivial between normal people but this combo just elevates it to a breakup lol. They often hope it means some won’t be able to attend. 1. We are both 33. She cheated and fell in love with someone else. My parents have always favored my younger brother. Your husband should not be lying like that - he sounds like a compulsive liar. We do not allow posts where the central conflict is transmitting or contracting any communicable disease, or undergoing any kind of medical procedure. AITA for leaving the table after what my FIL’s said? Not the A-hole. Everything’s was going great until my MIL brought up my husband’s "player" phase in high school. Only screw up is you let your brother deceive your parents for as long as he did. I haven’t for almost 2 years, because I don’t appreciate lies being told about me, I sent a mass text to the family stating that and told them to stop sitting around gossiping about me and worry about themselves. Since then I remarried and my new wife and I have been married NTA. I’m glad you told her you wouldn’t be her bridesmaid, and I hope you stop being friends with her. Her family lives across the country then with covid they hardly were ever around. My mother and I have a slightly rocky but somewhat on the mend relationship. Memes allowed, shitposts only on weekends. During the visit we took some pictures from my GFs phone and I knew I looked bad in them (vain I know) but I happened to be standing awkwardly and got caught at a bad angle as I was really nervous. Family takes money and lies to me. One thing led to another and together we went over a lot of incidences and stories from the past, with me exposing more and more lies. She literally took away his ability to communicate. They would also hurt me in ways and make me the guilty person. Clear_Sheepherder_63. Every time someone is NC or LC or has conflict with their parents, but kids are involved, there's at least 5-10 comments varying between calling the OP an outright asshole or saying no assholes exist and spouting some nonsense about how, "you're depriving your child NTA Your brother has been lying and scheme and than putting you down in front of your parents. this subreddit is for a podcast called reddit on wiki, that reads reddit stories. Out of pure curiosity, and since i clean my house by myself being unwed, i Hi. Her (32f) and I (30M) split well over a year ago, our divorce was just finalized about 2 months ago. Her disdain for him has been expressed in many ways over the years—namely spreading wild lies about him in efforts to turn my parents and others against him, and blatantly ignoring his existence at family gatherings. I do not speak to my husbands cousin or her mother. Obviously that is a terrible thing to do, but terrible people do terrible things. The life and death consequences of many medical conflicts are well outside of Reddit's paygrade. Her and her husband had been discussing getting a house keeper to help clean the windows and bathrooms since she said it took a long time. My wife and I met at 21. 1K votes, 34 comments. Continue to keep your integrity by not supporting his lies. AITA I lied about having a college fund for my step sister to save my sister. AITA for getting angry at my parents after they refused to look after my children? Asshole. I am 32F. If some cop decides to find and take back while not believing anything OP says because of lies, I think that counts as dragging her back home. I believe her that she’s bored and she is a complete [Cant say bc i’ll get banned from AITA] for it, just like rest of the assholes who do this. We have recently started trying for a baby as we both felt like that was the next step in our life together, and 3 weeks ago I got a positive test back. He clearly wants to sabotage OP's position in children's life and that's honestly not what a good step-parent (and partner to Thora) would do. Our marriage reached a bitter end when I learned she had remained married to me for over three years so I would support her through returning to school so she could switch careers to an even better paying one, despite her old one paying as much as mine. ” You should know by now, that you were in fact the one telling the lies, which is why I'm a bit confused. Swear that I don't have any copies to "use" against his mom later. AITA for lies by omission to my mother? Not the A-hole. I knew it would not work because the ex worked so much and traveled extensively for her job. 155K subscribers in the lies community. NTA no, not everyone lies on their resume. Praise our love and overlord u/spez and his incredible skill at managing the beautiful and well working… I can’t forgive her for that and I feel I am owed an apology before any contact could continue. So, I (69 M) was at a supermarket, and on the way out I found a woman crying, I chatted with her and she told me that she had lost $200 inside the supermarket, her story really touched my heart, so I gave her $50 from the $200 I found lying on the ground of the supermarket, she thanked me and I left, when I got home, I realized that if she found her $200 she would have $250 and I would have So, I (69 M) was at a supermarket, and on the way out I found a woman crying, I chatted with her and she told me that she had lost $200 inside the supermarket, her story really touched my heart, so I gave her $50 from the $200 I found lying on the ground of the supermarket, she thanked me and I left, when I got home, I realized that if she found her $200 she would have $250 and I would have It all began almost 8 years ago when I started dating my now-husband (Raymond). We’ve been together 2 years. Next week when she was with the family, the sister of course had chopped off her hair and OP revealed that hers was still long and intact. This particular group of people have no jobs, have been reliant on enabling family members’ handouts for decades, and has an undeservedly high level 100% agreed. My sister in law 25f lost her baby boy when she was 7 month months pregnant with him, 4 months ago. Your parents are racist, and you're a snitch. AITA for refusing to spend my money on my stepdaughter's wedding? Not the A-hole. AITA? Additional info: The scheduling, making appointments, taking kids where they need to be, grocery list, school stuff, making sure payments for bills came out, vehicle maintenance, organizing our date nights, finding babysitters, figuring out what needs to be done- falls on me. My MIL was just jokingly being like "Honestly, him in High school, I’d never thought he A place to satirize, crosspost from, poke fun at, and hold meta discussions on the never-ending ridiculous stories and creative writing exercises from AITA and AITA-adjacent subs, including classic tales of your local reddit heroes seeking validation. But it was blatantly obvious who they cared about more. Here’s the full story. A place to satirize, crosspost from, poke fun at, and hold meta discussions on the never-ending ridiculous stories and creative writing exercises from AITA and AITA-adjacent subs, including classic tales of your local reddit heroes seeking validation. It's so unethical and immoral. That was 2 1/2 years ago. Eh, web of lies is definitely an overstatement, but the MIL definitely lied by not only stretching the truth but also speaking for her husband without his words. We were together 7 years and he got into heavy drugs and became abusive towards the end of our relationship. Yes, OP's fiance needs to file a police report for theft, vandalism, and abuse of a disabled person. I tell her I don't know. We had some disagreements over child custody but settled on 50/50 custody. she told me that her girlfriend made a joke about cheating on her with a waitress. They saw it and asked me what I was doing. Before the podcast started reading reddit stories, the hosts would choose a topic and research it using Wikipedia. The GF is clearly dumb for wasting food and eating like a toddler. Making someone experience trauma isn't a prank, it's engaging in cruelty for your own amusement. Reddit, AITA? comments sorted by Best Top New My f/21 sister Jess, f/30, is married and has a 5 yo stepson. her husband works full time and she is a sahm. I am currently pregnant with our daughter. i told her that was weird, considering she had cheated once before. Just tune out her complaints and go on with your lives. I don’t watch the news so I recently found out I hope you’re doing well/better now. Your parents are racist, and you probably are as well. She needs to give over the money immediately. she admitted it was weird but said she was going to continue to talk to her Hey Reddit, I’ve been struggling with a decision that has been weighing on me heavily, and I need to know if I’m the asshole in this situation. Add a Comment. I was visiting last weekend and she brought it up to me and seemed very happy. Go to AmItheAsshole. Since I moved out, people living near me have… I have two sons ages 16 and 14 with my ex-wife. People cross-post stories for a chance that our podcast hosts (Sean, John and Josh) will read the story on the show. My dad had weekend visitation with Taylor at our house until I was 8, and it was the worst. She's always been really close with her family and I always thought that was so sweet since I'm not very close to mine. Since I had no proof and I didn’t want to accuse either of them, I decided to tell my therapist lies that I knew he would confront me on if he heard them to see if I was being delusional or not. Especially because we're talking about an incident that happened in 1995. So, for a bit of context, I work for a charity that gives starving orphans food and clothes. Subreddit Announcements Happy Anniversary, AITA! mayleemimi. Welcome to the official subreddit of the PC Master Race / PCMR! All PC-related content is welcome, including build help, tech support, and any doubt one might have about PC ownership. Exposing your brothers lies to defend yourself is far from being an ass. That is someone who would stab you in the back with a smile on her face and lie to you about it, as well as someone who doesn’t want you to have nice things, to be happy, and doesn’t care about how you feel. that little boy grew up to be pewdiepie. Apologize to his mom. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. He would likely benefit from therapy. We were close until junior year, when I discovered she had been spreading false rumors about me. lying. Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes! Do upvote interesting posts! Click Here For Our Rules and Click Here For Our FAQ. None of what you have given as examples are outright lies or attempts at manipulation by your niece. Not the A-hole. Last year, my husband (H) and I met my parents, aunt & uncle for Thanksgiving (they had been vacationing together a few days prior). he's a good guy and a widower named "James" (36) and to my knowledge his late wife passed away 8 months ago. To prove it, the OP got a wig with very short hair and posted a pic on Instagram. I wrote, "Nice try, but that is 3 different white guys, there is proof of Chauvin as a police officer with previous violent offenses, and in the original video of George Floyd’s murder, the officer’s badge is not “ironed-on”…that’s photo shopped. I said since they weren't going to buy or cook me meat I would buy my own. They all looked super uncomfortable and I pressed for an explanation. She’s 17, going to a high school dance with the guy. E. She bullied me really badly any time I saw her, to the point that I would scream every time my dad even mentioned her coming over. AITA is a platform for moral judgement, not medical advice. AITA for exposing my parents' favoritism. NTA. We’ve been very happy together every since. All names have been changed. Throwaway account. From Taylor‘s point of view, she told the truth - the fault lies with the adults that failed her, mostly her dad. For cutting my niece off college fund because of what she said about me. I completely lost my patience in front of the kids. AITA for not giving my fiancés daughter money when I won the lottery? Not the A-hole. During the night, our mutual friends asked how I know Taylor, and I said we are half sisters. I hope that you soon find peace. YTA. I defended myself against slander, lies and toxicity and that might make me the asshole because I don’t bend down and say you know what, your right. Now that would be a plot twist! However, the youngest sister has lied to a lot of people about things she doesn’t even need to lie about, like buying a house for 8k, selling her car to pay for a surgery (she never sold it and the surgery never happened) this was just the first time she dragged us into her lies. AITA for exposing my ex wife’s lies to her family about our “marriage”? Not the A-hole. All my life I have suffered constant abuse, it has always been between family and relative to them. r/AmItheAsshole. I exposed the OM to his wife and blew up his marriage. So I (36f) got up from my (36f) desk, and beat the fuck out of his (17m) ass. wx nb sm lc ls cj po lh pv co